It is the same thing that happens when some sees your sexy profile picture.
So you have decided to meet some people and want to start being hooked up with people via online.
You are ready to start hooking up with people, but are not looking to start that night.
There is no reason to put any additional pressure on the situation.
If you are nervous about hooking up with that person, have them meet you somewhere in you all’s area, have a drink or two, and then get out of there and have some real fun.
When looking to hook up via online you want to do what you can to increase your chance of getting laid.